“…there’s a one-in-three chance he will be a substance abuser.”
I had co-habitated with three women by the time I was 30. I finally got married in my late 30s, resulting in two great sons. Divorce happened after four years. Alas, I became become a modest alcohol abuser (vodka and lemonade on the rocks after 9 pm) in the early ’90s. Abandoned the hard stuff in ’96. Embraced total sobriety on 3.20.12.