Somewhere to the east of San Ysidro Road in Montecito, just east of Santa Barbara, on the way back from a birthday party for Santa Barbara Film Festival director Roger Durling — Saturday, 8.25.07, 7:25 pm; whenever people over the age of 30 start in with the orgiastic dancing and going “whoo-whoo!” at a party I always get depressed and want to leave.