Toward the end of this redband trailer for Luc Besson‘s The Family (Relativity, 9.13), Robert De Niro‘s character quotes Al Capone, to wit: “It’s better to be polite with a gun in your hand that to just be polite.” That’s not quite it, according to They’re claiming that Capone said “You can get much farther with a kind word and a gun than you can with a kind word alone.” Just saying.